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Am I wrong for once?

Am I wrong for intermittently believing our generation is constantly destroying all humanity, leaving me no faith in our people to create a better world for our great grands’ generation, and in order to do so our earth needs to be wiped out, as My All Knowing, All Being, All Powerful God says in Genesis 6:7? (For those who know me, you are fully aware of how spiritual I am, as well as my beliefs, on top of the work I do with children (foster care, “delinquents”, probation and “problematic“etc. etc.), but I do not blame them. And that is for a future blog…..


Am I wrong for frowning upon any other race, besides my own, who feel obligated to “stick it out” with our men, or those who utilize the word “nigga” like it’s their freedom of speech? (Which it is.)

Am I wrong to not hate, dislike or even have beef with ANY of the black femaleswho attempted to taunt me growing up, to make me feel like I was wrong, because they assumed my parents acquiring the means to hand me my life on a silver platter,  was unfair, yet I grew to have a disposition towards all African American women, PRESENTLY, who aren’t family or family friend? (I hate black girls.)  

Am I wrong to prejudge you based on your physical appearance, categorizing you in a sectionalized methodological grouping, I studied in one of my Undergraduate Psychology courses? (I believe the project was ANTI judgment, yet I photographically mimic the classifications upon meeting any and everyone.)

Am I wrong for never telling the full truth so help me God? (“Lying by omission.” Privacy. Discretion. Never airing dirty laundry about family, friends, relationships, personals. All in which I was raised on and valued. You feel free to make up and say whatever you want about me. I won’t give you the truth necessary to fabricate even more. Have fun. It has all worked for me thus far, clearly.)

Am I wrong to feel as though I have never experienced “real love”, not to say he  isn’t present in my life, but openly stating, I do not know what “unconditional, undying love” should look like? (Most men I meet serve purposes, rather lust, crush, like or playhouse love. All men are different, carying many flaws, none fitting my obviously, fairy tale, unflawed, perfectible, day dreaming,  inexistent ultimate mold of a man, so it was alway just easiest to never give your heart exclusively in full, have who I needed around, for what emotional needs I held, at that current time. It is what it is.)

Is it wrong that I would swerve to hit a human being before an animal on the road?Is it wrong that I sometimes doubt if I love him, but I always tell him I love him?Is it wrong that I would choose my family, before any other person, no matter what the situation at hand was?Is it wrong that I don’t drink alcohol, but I will buy my girls drinks till they pass out, cold?Is it wrong that I’ve been a vegetarian since 8, but have cheated on my beliefs with chicken, because it’s just so finger licking good?Is it wrong that I have a close relationship with God yet I hate people?Is it wrong that I feel, although I am nowhere near a saint towards outsiders, because I treat myself & my people good, and am obliged to God that I can get away with it?Is it wrong that I believe I am one of God’s Chosen one(s) and you just may not be?

Well in my world, I am never  wrong.



“You judge by human standards; I pass judgment on no one. But if I do judge, My decisions are right, because I am not alone. I stand with The Father, who sent Me.” John 8:15-16